During these two days I:
- was introduced to the GROWTH coaching system;
- explored the GROWTH model;
- applied some of the 8 key coaching skills;
- gained an understanding of the Coaching "Ways of Being" for coaching conversations;
- saw modelled and applied the GROWTH coaching model to a range of conversations;
- developed next steps for taking coaching forward in my kura
GROWTH model:
(Relationships)
G - Goals
G - Goals
R - Reality
O - Options
W - Will
T - Tactics
H - Habits
(Results)
Good coaching conversations lead to...
A - Actions
C - Clarity
E - Energy
8 Key Coaching Skills:
1. Developing trust
2. Being present
3. Listen actively
4. Clarifying
5. Empathising
6. Being succinct
7. Asking the best questions
8. Giving feedback
Let those "white spaces" (silence) rest - it allows the coachee to process their thoughts.
A major component is your emotional intelligence and "way of being".
Coaching is achieving goals:
- Where are you today?
- How will you get there?
- Where are you going?
Existing goals → Motivation/Strengths/Environment→Desired State "Future Perfect"
Coaching is about:
- seeing talent (strengths, potential) in everyone; solution-focused vs focusing on problems;
- expanding people's frames of reference vs allowing them to remain fixed (deficit theorising);
- seeing new possibilities vs setting tasks;
- asking (developing) vs telling;
- working WITH difference vs trying to change people;
- giving honest, constructive feedback vs feeling frustrated by avoiding the 'real' conversations.
Effective Listening
Active Listening Attitudes
- being "present" mindset
- avoid 'me too';
- remember that you think faster than peole can speak;
- listening for content and feelings.
Active Listening Behaviours:
- eye contact (appropriate);
- open posture;
- minimal encouragers;
- probing/clarifying questions or responses.
Have a go - Problem Talk
- Tell me about one of your small work challenges at the moment;
- Why is this such a problem?
- What are the worst emotions you have around this?
- what are the road bumps to progress here?
Have a go - Solution Talk
- tell me about what you'd like to achieve in relation to this?
- if this was working well, what would be happening?
- can you think of a time when you handled this situation successfully?
- what would others notice you doing if you were managing this challenge?
- if you could take just one single action to move this forward, what would it be?
Concerned-based feedback reminders:
- talk with people not at them;
- the more emotionally loaded the subject, the more silence is required;
- use silence to slow down a conversation so that you can discover what the conversation really wants to be about.
I would thoroughly recommend this course to anyone wanting to help and support colleagues.
My future perfect would be our entire teaching staff to attend this PD so we have a shared understanding and knowledge in order to be on the same waka.